Little Sister

Week 6

Write a letter to someone you know well. Not a short email, but a longish letter where you really talk about something.

Dear Molly,

You are a freshman in college already and I’m not quite sure how. It seems like just yesterday you were a toddler biting me, your first day of high school with me, and then your senior homecoming. While it is a bit unfortunate that you chose a yucky school (just kidding, Wilmington isn’t that bad) I hope you find it comforting. 

It’s already senior year for me, just like high school all over again with you being a little freshman. While I’m going to be here for two more years, it’s not the same. I won’t get to engage in all the activities the same. I have to grow up and prepare for the future, the real world, a job where I have to dress up. So, enjoy this next phase in your life and soak in as much of your childhood as you can before it’s gone.

That is your home for the next four years. So I urge you to make the most of it. Use all the resources possible that are available for you. Mom and dad told me not to get a job so I could focus on school, but don’t feel the same way. Get work experience, add to your resume. Join groups on campus, one, two, three even. You have time for whatever you want to make time for. A busy schedule isn’t always a bad thing, it keeps you more organized at times. It teaches you time management and discipline. If you ever need help, don’t be afraid to ask. Everyone on campus is there to help you succeed. 

Another tip that I have for you is to not get too far away from home. While campus is 2+ hours from home – and me – make sure that you stay in touch. Don’t let go of your high school friends. You don’t have to talk every day but reach out every so often to check-in. Those are connections that may not feel important now, but they were your first. Also, your friends at school are important. You may feel quiet and shy, but don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort. Talk more than you normally would, meet new people, and have conversations. These are the connections that you will take with you into the real world. They are your classmates and coworkers, so follow everyone on social media. 

One more thing, Kayla and I have gone through a lot of the experiences you are about to endure, so never be afraid to ask us questions about – anything. We are here for you, as well as the rest of the family. We all want to see you succeed. So, go do big things. You have all the ingredients you need. 

Love,

Your big twin sister,

Amy